Truth is...

If the way we relate with each other would be working, more people would be thriving in their relationships long term.

Instead, more than 50% of marriages end up in divorce, and nowadays there are more single folk and ‘relationship avoiders’ than ever before.

Now more than ever, people are experiencing disconnect, conflict, loss of attraction, feeling unappreciated and not having their needs met.

Many people are even feeling lonely in long-term relationships.

Women feel like they are not being valued or heard, and feel like they have to ask ‘10 times’ yet men still don’t hear them…

Men feel like they are being constantly nagged, mothered, micro-managed or criticised...

Then in exchange our hearts begin to close and we feel disconnected from our partner, and most often also from ourselves and what we are truly here for.

There is a reason and a solution for this.

And the real reason/solution is not something that is taught at school, or even by most academically trained Relationship Counsellors or Therapists…