The Type of Cheating No-one Talks About

When it comes to the topic of cheating, what most people refer to is:

• Hookups

• One night stands

• Escorts

• Affairs

However, what most miss completely, and the type of cheating many don't talk about...

is something that can be easy to miss and much easier to hide...

Examples of 'unspoken' cheating

• Stalking someone's FB/IG obsessing over their photos

• Leaving Fire emoji on a half naked picture

• Obsessively watching another persons stories, looking forward to their next updates.

• Daydreaming about someone else

• Deleting texts/ messenger/ WhatsApp conversations

• Only Fans

• Watching p8rn they don't know about

• Fantasising about someone else during s3x

• Leaking our s3xual energy in other directions, such as flirting

Many of these can go unnoticed, especially day dreams and fantasies of others.

However - the person who engages in this behaviour also has to live with the secrecy, risk, and the potential shame/guilt cycle.

This can even play out as a dopamine addiction.

There are MANY psychological factors as to WHY cheating and infidelity happens.

Each time I bring awareness to this topic many feel uncomfortable and triggered.

This is because it is a sensitive topic that many have navigated (at least at some point in their life).

And one that many have still not repaired and cleared out of their nervous system (because they haven't known how).

Maybe you have too?

I want to reassure you.

Infidelity can be repaired.

Trust can be brought back online.

This is a process and doesn't happen overnight.

Yet what is required is to investigate what needs were not met in the relationship so that we can begin to meet those needs.

There are many other pieces to this puzzle as well...

Like investigation of one's internal process, nervous system, limiting relationship beliefs, patterns, saboteurs and so on.

Unhealed infidelity wounds lead to carrying a burden of mistrust that hinders us from truly opening up and resting into our relationships.

This doesn't just play out in a current relationship if we choose to stay - our unhealed wounds carry on with us into new relationships.

Ready for repair?

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