SOULMATE CHEMISTRY

Where they truly ‘The One’ because of the out-of-this-world chemistry?

It was a soul-recognition like no other…

A familiarity from a different time that led to the most intense s/xxual chemistry.

You couldn’t keep your hands off them…

You couldn’t stop thinking about them…

You literally became consumed by them…

It was love like you’ve never felt before.

It was fire works. 💥💣🔥🚀

Literally.

Because it had its peak.
And then it died.

That fire works may even have accidentally pierced you in its peak.

It hurt you.

It hurt you hard.

I am deeply sorry to burst your bubble…

It wasn’t love.

> It was lust.

It wasn’t your soul mate.

> It was your wound mate.

It wasn’t chemistry.

> It was anxiety.

It was a chemical concoction in your body.

It was your nervous system that recognised what’s familiar.

Hence why they felt familiar.

What you haven’t yet known, is that:

You’ve confused attraction with anxiety.
You’ve confused excitement with drama.
You’ve confused depth with nervous system familiarity.
You’ve confused intimacy with intoxicating intensity.

I know… I’ve been there too 😤

And I too didn’t know, until I did.

My love,

LOVE ISN’T LIVING IN SURVIVAL.

It’s not a toxic push-pull dance.
It’s not a fight to prove your worth.
It’s not a performance to win their love.

It’s not a constant consuming battle of “will the stay or will they go?”

True love doesn’t ask you to abandon yourself.

True love doesn’t leave you guessing if they really love you or not.

True love doesn’t confuse you.

IT MEETS YOU.

Safe Love hits differently.

Safe love is:

👄 Where your nervous system feels at ease.
👄 Where your mind feels at peace.
👄 Where your heart feels taken care of.
And,
👄 Where your whole being feels safe to rest & relax.

Safe Love meets you, DEEPLY.

It’s not free of triggers.

However,

Safe Love is not led by anxious chemistry -
it is led by alignment, depth, connection & heart.

Safe Love doesn’t give you an instant hard on -
it gives you a heart on.

Safe Love doesn’t give you butterflies -
it gives you heart-gasms.

Safe Love doesn’t give you anxiety -
it gives you peace & gratitude.

Safe Love is not a given, yet it is a CHOICE.

It’s a STANDARD.

When you heal - Safe Love is what you will find.

May peace be your new standard.

Amen.

🌹Linda