I found myself in a spa with 4 men. Here's what happened next...

My girlfriend left the Soak House early as she had dinner plans. I decided to stay for a little longer on my own…

Suddenly, immersed in deep conversation with 4 men from the UK who I had never met before - I found out that:

One of the men is about to marry his ‘one’.
Another is navigating his 3rd marriage.
The other 2 men are single, still to find the love of their life.

The conversation evolved into me sharing about the evolutionary relationship work that I do with men and women.

(They had overheard me speak with my friend earlier).

The more I shared the more fascinated they became - taking turns asking several questions.

I felt happy to share freely, as they were leading me into answering their direct questions.

The more I shared, the more they nodded their heads.

Somewhat stunned how articulated myself and what I knew about relationships and men.

Suddenly,

One of the men expresses his excitement towards me meeting my next partner because I could teach him conscious relating from scratch.

His intent was genuine, as he expressed most men have no idea how to meet a woman’s needs or even how to begin to understand them.

I appreciated his genuine excitement for me and agreed with his secondary expression.

And,
I then I carefully chose my words and shared that I don’t desire to be an intentional teacher to my partner.

This man looked confused and said -

“I can tell you hold a lot of wisdom & knowledge, and I can tell you are really good at what you do. Why wouldn’t you want to teach your partner everything you know about how to thrive in love & connection - all that you teach so many couples & individuals?”

I humbly shared -

“My feminine oracle will continue to initiate him, sure. But intentionally teaching my man would mean that I am leading him. I have no desire to be the leader in my relationship. I desire to be led. To soften. To follow. To surrender. And to submit to HIS leadership”

All 4 men stared at me with a stunned look on their face.

After a longer silence they said:

“WOW… Wish more women understood this!!”

After a long moment of processing,
followed by further curiosity -

“Now tell us, why is it that 90% of Australian women want to lead in their relationships? It’s like women are bosses here. Why?”

Furthermore -

“We notice that many men here also submit to asking their women’s permission with a lot of their decisions, even when it comes to our industry in civil construction. It’s like men have lost touch with their masculinity, and women have lost touch with their true femininity.“

They continued -

“In the UK where we are from - things are so different. What is going on here in Australia? People seem really confused here, like they have lost touch with their true self and nature. What you are sharing is so refreshing to hear!”

I shared there is a reason why divorce rates are high in Australia, and also why there are more relationships avoiders than ever before…

Our spa conversation progressed into polarity.

We discussed attraction points and the different needs men & women have in a relationship.

And it was like for the first time ever these men could have a verbal conversation about something that they never knew how to articulate before - but always felt beneath the surface.

These men expressed their deep gratitude for understanding them and for understanding true masculinity.

And now my work made complete sense to them…

Things just clicked.

Yes…
Things tend to ‘click’ when you enter my world of transformational relating. 😏

I simply loooooooove this work and the faces, jaw drops & aha moments I get to witness!

And…
There is a reason my work has the ability to save marriages that are hanging by their last string.

That’s one thing -

But waiting until it gets to that stage to do the work is another.

Damage control is a much tougher road than prevention.

Waiting for sh*t to hit the fan is just like waiting for C/er to arrive and only then paying attention to your health.

Relationships = Same same (NOT different).

This world is over-saturated with Personal Development and 3rd eye opening Psychadelics.

What is lacking on a big scale… is TRUE EMBODIED RELATIONAL DEVELOPMENT.

That’s what we do in my world ❤️

Welcome home 🌹

Linda x