I WISH HE’D JUST HURRY UP

“I wish he’d just hurry up and got it over & done with already”

Dearest sister,
Are you waiting for him to 'finish' so that you can get on with your day?

You’re not alone…

I feel sadness that this is a reality for many (too many) women (and men).

Unfortunately, this is the case in many (way too many) relationships.

Yet it doesn’t have to be.

This repetitive ‘scenario’ doesn’t just affect women.
It affects men.

And keeping this kind of scenario/reality going long term becomes very thin ice to walk on…

Here’s the truth about what’s really going on for both genders, and why you should start paying attention now 💡

SHE / HER / WOMAN

What is happening here for a woman, is a fawn response. Abandoning and sacrificing her body to keep her husband happy. Putting her own needs & feelings last in order to please her man.

This kind of woman has learnt to disassociate from her body. She may even play along and fake an ‘O’ or two - just to keep her man satisfied.

Yet SHE, herself, is deeply unsatisfied. She is disconnected and dull. She spends most of her time in her mind (her masculine aspect). She keeps busy with the children, work, and other errands that have to be done.

She mostly escapes into the busyness of life. In this current reality she has disconnected from the relationship in a big way (and mostly from herself).

HE / HIM / MAN

As much as She tries to ‘play along’ and please her man - he can feel her. He can feel her disconnection. He can feel her lack of desire, lack of surrender and absent pleasure. And this to him - is like death to his soul and death to his ego.

A man’s deepest pleasure comes from witnessing & experiencing a woman in her deepest surrender and pleasure. And for him to realise that she cannot wait for it to be over affects him as a man more than she can currently even comprehend.

And if HE, as a man, is not attuned to his woman he may bypass the disconnect that she is feeling. In this case - he ends up using his woman’s body as a tool for getting his biological needs met.

And now, his woman’s body has become just a an object for his self-pleasure… Her body has taken the place of his hand…

And now,

💔 Hearts are disconnected.

💔 Energetic attunement is absent.

💔 Deep connection is non-existent.

And the same cycle continues…

The harsh truth is -

What you tolerate time & time again - you are choosing.

‼️AND ‼️

These kinds of ongoing realities that are not addressed often lead to separation, and in some cases infidelity or ongoing affairs.

What you choose day to day in your relationship creates the bigger outcome down the track.

That outcome is up to you.

If you’d like to ensure that outcome down the track is a beautiful & connected one - where you and you partner thrive in love, passion, intimacy & attraction long term -

Please, for the sake of your relationship and your happiness… start paying attention now. 💡

My transformational relating work is ready for you when you decide to choose more than what is happening here & now.

Let’s bring you and your boo back into connection. ❤️😧

I’ve gotchu.

🌹 Linda