A WOMAN DOESN’T TRUST A PEOPLE PLEASER & ‘NICE GUY’

A WOMAN DOESN’T TRUST A PEOPLE PLEASER & ‘NICE GUY’

A woman doesn't trust a man who is a people pleaser, "yes man", or a “nice guy".

This type of man pleases for acceptance & likability.
In the process he abandons his own truth.

A woman doesn't trust a man who abandons his own truth to please others.

Because this means that he seeks validation outside of himself - to feel loved and to feel good enough.

This in turn may lead to jeopardising his relationship with her to keep pleasing others for acceptance, likability & validation. (He lacks boundaries).

A woman trusts a man who embodies his truth
- even if she doesn't like all of his words, actions & behavior related to his truth.

This is why "Nice Guys" lose.

Because a woman doesn't want to be pleased with a silver platter of fluff. She wants to be met with truth, integrity & discernment.

She doesn't want to have it all her way all the time. She doesn't want to get away with all of her requests & chaotic ideas.

She wants to feel the truth, integrity & discernment of her man.

Because if he doesn't stand for something she knows he stands for nothing.

When a "nice guy" or “yes man" learns to say
NO to his woman - Not only will her attraction to him grow, but so will her respect.

However,

Saying "No" is not a game to make her wilder for him.

Because a woman can sense when a man's "No" is aligned with his truth and when it's inauthentic.

🌹Linda